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April Counselor Connection

Posted Date: 4/07/25 (1:30 PM)
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Welcome to another great year! At Rapoport Academy, we are committed to encouraging, supporting, and empowering our students to become their best selves. The counseling team is excited for a new school year and the opportunity to support your child's mental health and wellness.
 

Test Anxiety: Importance of Self Talk

As standardized testing approaches, it's natural for students to experience a mix of emotions. One effective strategy to help your child navigate this period is fostering positive self-talk. Positive self-talk involves encouraging oneself with affirming statements, which can significantly boost confidence and reduce test-related anxiety.

Understanding Self-Talk
Self-talk refers to the internal dialogue we have with ourselves. For students, this can range from uplifting thoughts like "I can handle this challenge" to more negative sentiments such as "I'm going to fail." The nature of this inner conversation can greatly influence their test performance and overall well-being.

The Impact on Test Performance
Negative self-talk can heighten anxiety, leading to decreased concentration and hindered performance during exams. Conversely, positive self-talk can enhance focus, boost confidence, and promote a sense of calm, all of which are conducive to better test outcomes.

 

How You Can Support Your Child

Here are some practical steps to help your child develop positive self-talk habits:

  1. Identify Negative Thoughts: Encourage your child to recognize when they're having self-defeating thoughts. Awareness is the first step toward change.
  2. Challenge and Reframe: Teach them to question the validity of negative thoughts and replace them with positive, realistic affirmations. For example, transform "I'm not good at math" into "I can improve in math with practice."
  3. Practice Affirmations: Introduce your child to positive affirmations they can repeat, such as "I am prepared and capable," or "I can handle this challenge."
  4. Visualization Techniques: Guide them to visualize successful outcomes, like completing the test confidently. This mental rehearsal can build a positive mindset.
  5. Model Positive Self-Talk: Demonstrate positive self-talk in your daily life. Children often emulate the behaviors and attitudes of their parents.

By integrating these strategies, you can help your child approach standardized tests with a more positive and resilient mindset. Remember, your support and encouragement play a pivotal role in their academic journey.


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